Biography
Aryan’s Tale of Legacy and Transformation.
In the serene, sun-kissed town of Pasni, nestled within the heart of Balochistan, my story begins. I am Aryan, a name synonymous with the legacy of my forefathers, and Pasni is not just where my life started—it’s a paradise that constantly draws me back to my roots. For generations, five to be precise, my family has called Pasni home. The Mengal tribe, from which I hail, is one of the most esteemed castes among the Baloch tribes, renowned for its royal lineage and unwavering spirit.
Born into a family of rebels and revolutionaries, truth, justice, and resilience are in my blood. My ancestors were not just warriors; they were champions of change, fighting for their rights and those of others, often moving from place to place in pursuit of justice. Fast forward to the early 2000s, I was born into this rich heritage. My initial years were spent in the tranquil embrace of Pasni, where I completed my primary schooling.
In 2011, life took a significant turn as my family relocated to Karachi. The bustling city was a stark contrast to my hometown, and adapting to this new environment was a challenging ordeal. Shy and introverted by nature, I, along with my siblings, found it hard to open up and connect with others. Our simplicity and integrity, instilled by our upbringing, often made us seem different from the more cunning and clever children around us. This was a source of concern for my father, who wished for us to be confident and astute.
Despite his efforts to instill these qualities in us, we remained steadfast in our ethical ways, never resorting to deceit. In 2017, our lives were irrevocably altered when we lost my father to cancer. At the tender age of sixteen, I was thrust into a world of harsh realities. Those who once seemed to be our well-wishers revealed their true colors, and I found myself surrounded by newfound adversaries. It was during this time of turmoil that I began to transform.
Gradually, I became a keen observer of human behavior, a critical thinker, and as cunning as a wolf. I delved into the study of emotional intelligence and human interactions, honing my ability to read and understand people. Through patience and perseverance, I embraced the qualities my father always desired for me. The quote, “kuch paaney ke liye kuch khona padta hai” (to gain something, you must lose something), resonated deeply with me. The loss of my father bestowed upon me the strength and wisdom he had always hoped to impart.
Today, I am an entrepreneur, the owner of multiple e-commerce and physical businesses. My journey from the serene lands of Pasni to the bustling city of Karachi, and beyond, is a testament to resilience and transformation. I invite you to delve deeper into my story through my books and daily reflections on this site. Each day, I share my thoughts and experiences, offering a glimpse into my journey and the lessons I’ve learned.
Essence Of Life...!!
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ssence of life is in exploring. I believe life is all about discovering and learning new things. Since childhood, I have always been curious about the world around me, eager to explore, but the circumstances seldom allowed it. However, when I joined university, everything changed. I met new people who were initially strangers, but they soon became my close friends, teaching me how to enjoy every moment of life and live freely.
Before university, I was often worried and stressed. Meeting Azlan, Emmad, Falak, and Rehman opened my eyes to different perspectives on life. Azlan taught me not to worry because tomorrow is uncertain. He would say, “Kal ki kal dekhengy,” which means, “Let’s deal with tomorrow when it comes.” Emmad introduced me to the art of ignoring life’s troubles. He would face many challenges but always remained unbothered, often saying, “Stop worrying, and the problem will eventually solve itself.” When I applied this mindset, it truly worked wonders.
Falak’s advice was to never trust or rely on anyone completely. He reminded me that people might come and go, sometimes using you for their own benefits, but it’s important to let them go without hurting yourself over temporary people. This lesson made me braver and more independent.
Rehman, on the other hand, was a different breed altogether. He never took things too seriously. He often said, “We need to do this and that,” but rarely followed through. His attitude was, “Life will pass by just fine,” and his carefree approach taught me to enjoy life without getting bogged down by every little detail.
Through these friendships, I learned that having good friends is invaluable. They are like treasures, “maal e ganimat.” These relationships have enriched my life, making me the person I am today.